One of the things that you experience when you read the New Testament, are the numerous occasions when Jesus’ disciples show their doubt about His mission, teaching and actions. It isn’t just Thomas (John 20:24-29) who is sceptical and needed physical proof to believe, even though they saw Jesus’ amazing powers to heal and other great works, they fairly regularly doubted that he was indeed the Son of God.
In fact, how people reacted to Jesus’ mission tend to fall into three broad categories. There were those who accepted him wholeheartedly- people for example like the demon possessed man who was healed and the Centurion whose faith was such that just the word of Jesus was sufficient to bring back to health his sick servant. Then there were those who opposed him – some Pharisees, King Herod, the Romans and other teachers/experts of the Law because of the threat Jesus posed to them, and of course ultimately it led to them conspiring to kill him. The third group of people are those who neither accepted Jesus wholeheartedly or rejected him but who were unsure or doubted him and who he was- in essence they had a rather agnostic viewpoint.
There are numerous examples of where the disciples fell short in their faith- think of how they responded to Jesus’ teaching of the parable of the Sower, the feeding of the five thousand, Jesus’ repeated statements where he predicted his death, or where Jesus calmed the storm or walked on water. At these times, the disciples’ response, rather than seeing these events as signs and evidence to confirm who He was, was to ask “Who is this?” (Mark 4:41).
They were not alone in their doubts- even John the Baptist was unsure as in Matthew 11:3 he asked of Jesus: “Are you the one who was to come, or should we expect someone else?” Now this is John who personally baptised Jesus and witnessed the descent of the Holy Spirit upon him and declared him the Lamb of God-tey even he doubted!
So how do we deal with doubt? For wisdom I look to the late and great Selwyn Hughes who amongst other achievements set up the Crusade for World Revival (CWR). He once said “Many Christians are afflicted with doubt. Doubt is not the problem; it is how we respond to it that determines whether it will be an obstacle or an opportunity. Don’t repress your doubts but acknowledge them and bring them to Jesus. Face them in the confidence that they can be used as stepping stones to a deeper awareness of God”.
That has to be right – we should not feel guilty if we have doubts, in many senses they are natural, but as Selwyn said, it is more about how we deal with that doubt, that we should shine a light on them and take them to God in prayer.
On Monday we said a sorrowful farewell to our amazing Queen Elizabeth II and it will have been an experience like none other. So many people, especially those in Commonwealth countries, have spoken in losing her they feel they have lost their mother as she has been the one constant throughout their lives, and I think in our hearts and minds we all kind of thought she would go on forever. Psalm 90:10 says ‘ the days of our years are threescore years and ten’- in other words 70 which ironically was exactly how long the Queen reigned over us-how about that for symmetry?
One of the most heartfelt notes left for the Queen was from the new Prince of Wales, William, who wrote “Grief is the price we pay for love”. William would have now that his grandmother penned those very words after the ‘9/11’ attacks in 2001 when over 3,000 people were killed, and it is a life lesson for us all.
The harsh reality of life is that if you love then you will grieve – that is quite literally the price we pay to love someone in that in time we will really hurt, but it is a necessary part of our lives. One person who really brought this to the fore was another great Christian like the Queen – CS Lewis the writer of the Narnia books and one of the greatest defenders of our faith.
In 1960 under a pseudonym, he published ‘A Grief Observed’ in which he wrote about the great pain (and doubts about his faith) he suffered with the death of his wife Joy Gresham-just 4 years after they were married. In it he talks bravely of the stages of grieving he went through but in end he was left with a feeling of gratitude to have experienced the gift of a true love.
He also spoke about the need to leave the ‘Shadowlands’ of our lives and to take that chance to love people. It was something that his wife had apparently observed in him, in that he spent his life living in a kind of safe ‘bubble’ being a scholar at Oxford for almost 30 years surrounded by other literary friends and students who all looked up to him. When he took her encouragement to step out of that ‘shadowland’ where the sun did not shine he experienced genuine joy -but a few years later he was hit badly by his grief and experienced his ’Slough of Despond’.
As we reflect on our Queen’s life, who truly lived out of the shadowlands, I think we can learn the importance of not hiding away in what is comforting but to take chances in our life, to experience joy and true love, so that at the end of our lives we can say of ourself that, like the Queen’s time on earth, it has been ‘a life well lived’.
Amongst the incredibly distressing scenes we have witnessed on the news of late about the war in Ukraine, I was particularly and strangely moved by the women in the city of Dnipro who were spending their time making home-made ‘Molotov Cocktails’ (petrol bombs) in order to protect their families from Putin’s ruthless troops. These were wives, mothers, daughters and sisters who were saying “We have to do something”, as the West is not coming to their aid.
As Christians we don’t like to see scenes like this no matter what the circumstances are as Jesus has taught us that we should love our enemies, we should return good for evil, that vengeance is God’s alone and that the peacemakers are blessed. But these women and their family are currently in Hell- we just can’t imagine what they are going through as hundreds and almost certainly thousands of them are being shelled and crushed into submission, and our hearts go out to them.
Now the idea of people using force and violence even in self-defence has always been a difficult concept for us as Christians down the ages. Some Christians (especially Quakers) are pacifists and feel there are no situations where they can justify the use of force but many others (me included I have to say) feel that ‘righteous anger’ or ‘limited aggression’ is justified in order to bring about justice and to protect the weak. It is something that early Christians such as Saint Augustine and Saint Thomas Aquinas argued for where a) force is needed for a just cause because of some wrong that has occurred and b) that those using force have the right intent-that of promoting good and to prevent evil.
Jesus also teaches us about righteous anger in the story of the moneychangers in the temple (in all four gospels) where he uses his anger to expel them from the Temple using not just his words but by actual physical force -by overturning their tables, using a whip out of cords and throwing away their money in order to make his point that people were using God’s house as a ‘den of thieves’ and making it difficult for people to praise his Father there. The idea of God’s people justifiably using force is there in the Bible for example in the accounts of Abraham fighting the four kings (Genesis) and David using force to slay Goliath (Samuel). So in extremis it is justified.
Like so many other Christians we at St Mary’s have had Ukraine very much in our thoughts and prayers and we know how effective they can be. However, for many Ukrainians that support no matter how well appreciated may not be enough as they are in mortal terror now and they need active support (and force) from the West but that is not coming because of the fear of a nuclear war. That means people like the women of Dnipro are having to try and save their families themselves in the only way they feel they can – through what I think can be truly said is an example of ‘righteous anger’.
One of the many delights of the current No 1 show on Netflix-Ricky Gervais’ After Life (which I should warn is not for faint hearts), is its tale of how to deal with bad things, how to have hope and live a good life-or how to be a good person.
If you haven’t seen the show it centres around Tony (Ricky Gervais) a writer for a local free newspaper whose beloved wife dies. Not being able to deal with his loss, he contemplates suicide but then attempts to punish the world in some way by doing and saying whatever he likes. His friends and colleagues though do their best to give him hope and encourage him to rebuild his life and become a better person.
The show’s language is nothing if not spicy and as they used to say it is not for your maiden aunt, but despite that, the programme has some profound spiritual truths in it.
At one point a character in it says:
“People get so hung up on what it takes to be a good person. They spend hours on end trying to figure out what they can do to make the world a better place or how they can have a positive impact on humanity to make them feel good about themselves. And this is it: this is the be-all and end-all of what it takes to be a decent human being-do things for other people. Go out of your way to make other people’s lives a bit easier, however you can, with whatever is within your capability, and you will be a good person by definition”.
When Ricky Gervais wrote that piece of writing he was not far off the truth and of course it should immediately chime with Christians. We know that as a follower of Jesus they have a duty to serve each other – in 1 Peter 4:10 we are told “As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another as good stewards of the manifold grace of God”. We show our love for people by serving them.
We are also required to encourage each other, to build and mould others to allow them to overcome the obstacles they face in their lives. This is also about giving them hope and faith that “they will overcome”.
There is a marvellous line in Deuteronomy 22:4 where it says “Thou shalt not see they brother’s ass or his fall down by the way and hid thyself from them: thou shalt surely help him to lift them up again”. In other words, the way we show our love for people is by serving them, sharing their life’s burdens, and making things just that bit better for them. That is a real definition of being a good person and honouring God.
